Managing Stress
Do you hit the brakes or the accelerator when you encounter stress? What is your stress temperament?
You probably know someone who lives in the eye of a crisis storm; their life is a series of minor dramas, which replay over and over. You also probably know another person who weathers all kinds of storms yet seems to be happy. Scientific studies have discovered a link between personality, temperament and the ability to deal with stress. Individual responses to life situations vary greatly. Instead of beating yourself up for your inherent temperament become aware of how you respond to changes. This awareness can lead you to develop new habits and promote healthy hormones and neurochemicals.
Once you become aware of the language spoken by your autonomic nervous system you will discover the power you have to create joy, abundance and health the same way you create stress, fatigue and disease.
The implication of using this information in teaching children in school is powerful. Every teacher creates their own classroom environment and students respond in different degrees based on their own stress temperament. The first step in creating a healthy environment is to recognize your own stress temperament. Ask: how do you respond to periods of high activity and inattentiveness with your students and what methods do you use to calm and discipline disrupting students?
One way to establish a healthy classroom environment is to factor in de-stressors every day. Educate yourself about the practice of mindfulness. The practice of mindfulness is an effective tool to enhance academic performance while promoting emotional and social well being. Its focuses on developing a student’s capacity for attention and awareness.
Begin every day with three minutes of silence. Instruct your students to close their eyes and simply notice their breathing as they focus on the space between their nose and upper lip. As your students get into this habit they will become more aware of their emotions. This technique is a system that allows the mind to settle down and focus. You can develop and expand this practice during the school year by adding more mindful minutes including the practice of loving kindness (sending loving kind thoughts to another person while you are silent). You don’t have to become an expert to create a different kind of calm for your students you only have to be willing to experiment and create this peaceful space.
The benefit is not just to your students but also to yourself. It allows you to be the best kind of teacher; one who is truly present in the classroom engaged with students and subject making the connections that open the mind to real learning.
