Free To Fail
One often-ignored fact about learning is: if you are free to fail you are free to try. It’s not the skills you actually have that determine how you feel but the ones you think you have. This idea at first glance might seem like a form of self-delusion but on the contrary if you believe you are capable you get into the flow of creativity and learning in any activity. If no one is telling you you’re not good enough you are free to just explore your possibilities.
Think how empowering this thinking can be in school. Most children begin their school careers at the age of five with a mixture of excitement and fear. The excitement is about being big, riding the bus, having school stuff like a backpack as they join the ranks of the “older kids.” The fear is connected to the idea of failure. Unfortunately for some children they experience the failure first and it leads them to doubt their own abilities. They are now not good enough.
Why does the school culture create this thinking?
It’s not intentional but the language of school itself has more negative words than positive ones. It begins with the rules punctuated with the word “don’t.” Don’t create limits and judgment. Other negative language comes in the form of assessment, children are rated and the rating in the form of grades begets competition.
The Latin root of the word compete is competure which means to seek with. During the Golden Age in turn of the century Paris artists lived and worked in each other’s pockets. All new innovations, new trends were immediately known and could freely be incorporated into the work of others. There was a lack of envy. So instead of taking possession of ideas, they shared.
Teachers are fortunate because they can create the type of learning culture they want in their classrooms. To help students become more adventurous in their learning begin by:
- Finding opportunities for cooperative learning groups. Encourage students to explore answers together, help them share and listen by modeling that in the larger group.
- Make all classroom rules begin with Do. Look for ways to affirm and reward positive behaviors. Invite students to contribute to the good list and make a habit of using more encouraging words.
- Devote one day a week to “fun learning.” Fun learning is based on what if thinking. What if can be applied to any content area. Take a social studies lesson and ask students to rewrite the past with a what if hypothesis. Students can be unencumbered and allowed to explore new possibilities.
- Be patient with students freewheeling thinking. Keep in mind a lot of crap will be created but crap plays an important role in discovery. It’s the fertilizer that allows the good stuff to grow. It’s an important ingredient in all-creative thinking and in all discovery.
