What’s Best For All Children
Americans look to their doctors to be healthy. A doctor’s advice is considered gospel, you’ll often hear “my doctor said.” The irony of this is that the greatest advances in public health did not come from individual doctoring but rather in increasing awareness about health practices and sanitation. That awareness is responsible for increasing life expectancy in the United States because information is more powerful than any single doctors visit.
Tragically right now in American’s public schools health awareness is at risk. Currently there is no dedicated funding for comprehensive sex education in our schools. Schools have become hostage to political and religious ideology about what’s best for all children. The abstinence only curriculum guarantees that our youth will not learn reproductive information that could potentially not just save their lives but also determine the direction of their lives.
Today one in four American teenage girls has a sexually transmitted disease. Nearly half of black teenage girls have at least one sexually transmitted infection. The Center for Disease Control and Prevention also reported in the study that for the first time in fifteen years the rate of teenage pregnancy has significantly increased. The United States has high rates of unintended pregnancy, abortion, and STD’s. And what is our answer to reverse this situation?
Federal funding to schools limits and denies information in our sex education programs. Abstinence only programs ignore the fundamental precept that sex is powerful in our lives and that it does have consequences. Education is not taking this problem seriously enough. Much of what is learned in school is not just learned for the present moment it’s learned to take students through a lifetime of choices. It’s learned to give children information on how to base decisions. Decisions about sexual activity happen at all stages of life not just during the teen years.
What can educators do to improve this situation?
Become a powerful and compassionate voice for change in your school. First recognize that all parents fear the possibility of their children having a sexual life, and their greatest desire is that their children delay sexual activity until later into young adulthood. Often these fears and desires keep parents acting in the most proactive way by demanding a comprehensive program. The principles of abstinence programs do give a voice to the importance of relationships and communication but they totally lack the substance of information to help children make informed decisions and avoid the consequences.
Teachers have the ability to engage with parents on the most personal and intimate level. They both have a child’s best interest at heart. Teachers can begin a dialogue with parents especially those at the middle school level when students are first given reproductive information.
So what’s a good way to start?
Approach this taboo subject by bringing awareness to parents about the minefield of influence their children will navigate. Teens have this perception of being immune of being invulnerable. Many don’t know what risks they face; they can’t make decisions in the dark because they aren’t properly prepared to make them. Myths about pregnancy continue like urban legends. Some girls believe that drinking or douching with coke with prevent a pregnancy. This type of thinking is a disaster waiting to happen.
If parents see their child’s teacher and their child’s school as a partner in the future of their children perhaps they will trust educators to make decisions on what’s best for all children instead of politicians.
