Learning From Mistakes
Perception is everything. How you see things shapes how you interpret the world. In the classroom the teacher’s perceptions can mean the difference between success and failure. The verbal and non-verbal communication of the teacher lets a student know if he or she is capable and smart or inadequate and challenged.
Consciously or not you tip people off as to what your expectations are. You exhibit thousands of cues, some as subtle as the tilting of the head, raising an eyebrow or dilation of the nostrils, but most are much more obvious. And your students pick up on these cues. In other words once an expectation is set, even if it isn’t accurate an individual tends to act in ways that are consistent with that expectation. Surprisingly often, the result is that the expectation comes true.
Students who lack academic and social skills continue to struggle sometimes even when they are capable and the help and encouragement is sufficient. Could it be because no foundation has been built to give that student confidence?
Every student needs to learn in a quality environment. This type of classroom allows for failure. For students the perception is mistakes are bad and embarrassing and should be avoided. When in fact mistakes are opportunities to learn something. The more mistakes made the more a student will learn and the greater chance they will of have of succeeding on the next try. The key is to learn from the mistakes, not making the same mistake twice.
Thomas Edison would never have invented the light bulb if he did not take this principle to heart. He failed more than 10,00 times before he found the filament that would create light for a sustained period of time. He did not view these as failures.
How a student views their failures comes from you, the teacher. If you can eliminate judgment and comparing, you can give every student the mental confidence to know that they can succeed. An interesting case in point is the story about a group of American schoolteachers who were visiting schools in Japan. In one school they watched a Japanese boy struggling at the board with a single math problem. For forty-five minutes this boy worked on the problem making repeated mistakes. During this time the American schoolteachers became anxious and embarrassed for the little boy. Yet the boy did not seem to mind. The teachers wondered why they felt worse than he did.
What they didn’t understand is that in Japanese schools practice in making mistakes is accepted as a natural part of learning. Once the boy got the answer right his classmates cheered. Maybe in American schools it’s forgotten that achievement is just a matter of plain hard work. If students are worried about meeting expectations they many never get on the path to success thus ensuring themselves of the very thing they are afraid of – failure.
Teachers can empower their students to learn by making their classroom mistake friendly. Create room to fail with collaborative and cooperative groups. Give students a stretch zone in which they move away from what’s comfortable and challenge themselves everyday. Let them learn from their mistakes.
